What exactly are we doing??

Because love is really a beautiful thing 💕, it can get really ugly in split seconds. Has anyone ever been in a very emotional draining situation where you’ve been hanging out with this particular guy and everyone thinks you’re dating each other but you?

Let me share this personal story

“I became very close to this guy ,we met at church during a program and we got talking, we basically talked everytime ,everyday. I was into him already and i could see that it was mutual,even people felt something was going on because we were always seen together before and after every service, to cut the long story short we got really close and involved in each others lives and we talked about every and anything. All these things made me think we were eventually going to date, well I was wrong the deal breaker came on the 14th of february when he told me of how he got disappointed by a lady that was supposed to go on a date with him later that evening ,I wanted to cry a river which i eventually did but then i went further to ask him more questions like “if he was dating her” then he replied saying “she’s still a work in progress” indicating he has been on her case for a while, meanwhile I was just there in a relationship with him in my mind. I was traumatized to be honest because I really liked him and was ready to be in a serious relationship with him, I just wished i had asked him earlier “What we were doing”.

My opinion about this is short and simple if you find yourself in oblivion with a guy you already like it’s best and advisable for you to ask him. It will only hurt for a while if his response is negative and if its positive that’s awesome. We all deserve happiness!! And yes love is really a beautiful thing with the person that’s really worth it.❣  #Lovewins #Livethelovelife 

-‘Lola Oyetunji


Trust 😘

At around 2am, there was a very strong windstorm introducing a very heavy rainfall, i woke up from sleep because of the noisy sound my door was making due to the fact that it had a bad lock so it wouldn’t stay locked.

The door was opened ajar,😨 and I have a major dislike for rodents and cold so I quickly moved my heavy Ghana must go bag and trusted that it will help keep the door locked all through the night, but to my surprise my dear Ghana must go was moved out of the way! Emphasis on MOVED! Of course I felt disappointed in the bag, because I trusted it to keep me safe from the rain by keeping the door locked. 

Few moments later my room mate brought out a small blouse and just kept it in between the door and the door frame and it stayed!! 😱. I was shocked at that little act. And as I laid on my bed I kept wondering why my heavy bag won’t keep the door locked but then a small cloth did.

While i was ruminating on my folly, then I was brought to the understanding of trust, the bible says Trust in the Lord with all your heart and your mind, and lean not on your understanding.  Prov 3:5

I trusted in the heavy bag to keep me safe but it failed me, then the minutest item succeeded

Have we in any way trusted man more than God? Well I have, and of course i got disappointed several times ( which will be a story for another day) No matter what life throws at you, Trust in God beloved even when it looks like nothing even when the man you trust in has promised to fulfill all your desires and wants, or even when you feel God is silent . He loves you and cares too much and He is always on time.

Have a blessed day 💞


Numero uno Post

Hi readers 😘

I am soo happy to be starting this blogging adventure with you all, and silently i pray i don’t give up on this as this is my 3rd attempt at blogging *covers face* 🙈🙈.

Nevertheless i will be sharing with us value adding contents touching areas like Faith,Fashion, Health,and lifestyle. I pray we all get blessed and inspired daily as this will be a blog with daily posts. Questions will be welcomed always ,and answers will be provided appropriately.

God bless you!!

Love -Damilola ❣ 

Fears drowned in Perfect Love

The sad look on my dad’s face was threatning, the cold response from my parents , the constant visits from my dad’s family and friends.It was the death of  his son earlier this year , my  elder brother(step)  to a sickness that was known after his death. I remember the tears every night, and how I will quickly clean up my face so my friend who was sleeping next to me in my room wouldn’t detect, and how I had to form brave at church when all I wanted to really do was stab church services for like a year and just soak myself in my very own eye fluid.

I had loads of questions to ask God, like what were you doing when my brother died? Did’nt you hear my prayers just 2 nights to his death day? Is there really a God up there? I remember also not feeling safe with this “God” anymore , atleast if He could watch my brother go like that, why should I trust him with my life or my remaining family members.

I was  joyless if there’s anything like that, I was practically empty and felt really hopeless , it was like there was a black out inside of me. I sourced for Joy and love everywhere I could, I needed something greater to re assure me of hope and love because i wasn’t getting it from any human. Just before then my friends had given me a song to listen to by  Bethel church’s Jonathan David and Melissa_-”No longer slaves”. I really didn’t understand the song then, but i just always felt good with it .Then something happened,i felt lighted within I was reminded of God’s love for me everyday. And you wonder why I become hyper whenever the song is played anywhere I am :).   . PS –This is not a post on “How to recover from the loss of a loved one”. Beloved  God loves you no matter what you are going through or have gone through and He uses EVERY OPPORTUNITY to show you that, even the minutest thing you can think of.  God’s love cannot be over emphasized. He loves you through your best and  your worst. God never stops expressing His love to you.

Rom 8:35-39(NKJV)
“35Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? 36 As it is written:

“For Your sake we are killed all day long;
We are accounted as sheep for the slaughter.”

37 Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us. 38 For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, 39 nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
“My fears have been drowned in  perfect Love” Glory!!!!!! You’re loved!. Love always wins .